From the Base: The effects of Bullying
This week, and into next, the school has a focus on anti-bullying. Dr Essex is approaching this with gusto, strongly supported by all the staff. I thought I would like to share with you some parts of what the boys have learnt about. Bullying has been identified as one of the top three threats to society in the coming years.
Children who are bullied are more likely to:
Have low self-esteem
Develop depression or anxiety
Become socially withdrawn, isolated and lonely
Have lower academic achievements due to avoiding or becoming disengaged with school
Be unable to form trusting, healthy relationships with friends or partners in the future
Impact on children who bully
Children who frequently bully others are more likely to:
Drop out of, or be expelled from school
Engage in criminal behaviour
Develop depression or anxiety
Be abusive towards their partners, spouses or children as adults
Impact on bystanders
Children who witness bullying are more likely to:
Feel powerless
Live in fear and guilt
Impact on schools
Schools that do not take significant action against bullying are more likely to:
Create a negative environment based on a culture of fear and disrespect
Have poor student engagement, staff retention and parent satisfaction
Give students the impression that teachers have little control and do not care
Instill insecurity, low self-esteem and lack of ambition in their students
Fail in inspiring students to reach their full academic potential
Schools that are tough on bullying are:
- Safe
- Fun
- Places that enable students to thrive
- Environments that help achieve better academic results for its pupils
- Factories that help develop well rounded, kind and considerate people
- Places where staff and pupils value each other
- Inclusive, tolerant, interesting and enjoyable.
- Breeding grounds to help pupils have good relationships with peers, their families and other adults they have contact with.